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Similoluwa Taiwo
Architecture · Federal University of Technology Akure · Season 2 Episode 1
"Sometimes you might have not gotten what you want, but you are just there... you are now complacent. You are just enjoying that stage."
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About
Similoluwa's undergraduate journey is defined by the courage to explore, the discipline to prioritize, and the wisdom to know when to pivot. A final-year architecture student, she rejects the pressure to follow a singular path, instead embracing a multi-faceted approach to student life that includes writing, community leadership, and personal development.
While architecture is notoriously demanding, Similoluwa discovered that true success isn't about achieving an impossible "balance." Instead, she mastered the art of seasonal prioritization, giving her full attention to the tasks that matter most at any given time. Her journey is a testament to the idea that a university education is a canvas for self-discovery, provided one is willing to step outside the classroom.
One of the most profound lessons she shares is the redefinition of "giving up." Rather than viewing it as a failure, she treats it as an insightful, intentional act. By regularly returning to her "drawing board," she evaluates whether her current activities align with her goals, allowing her to shed habits or commitments that hinder her growth.
What Shaped Them
- Intentional Exploration: Navigating diverse interests, including politics, writing, community building, and sports (tennis).
- Strategic Prioritization: Understanding that different seasons of life require shifting focus rather than spreading oneself thin.
- Community Integration: Joining platforms like Cowrywise, which transformed her from a student member into an active contributor and colleague.
- The Power of Inquiry: Using the "drawing board" method to audit her life and ensure constant forward momentum.
- Authenticity: Moving past the trap of people-pleasing to live a life aligned with her own values.
Lessons From Their Journey
Growth is active: Complacency is a bigger threat to success than failure.
Ask for help: Everyone has access to support, but one must have the courage to reach out.
Identity over appearance: Do not sacrifice parts of yourself just to fit in or be accepted by others.
Intentionality: Every change, positive or negative, should be made with a clear reason.
Advice To Younger Students
Stop trying to have everything figured out immediately. Take an inventory of where you are versus where you want to be, then identify the bridge, be it people, skills, or habits, that will get you there. Stop pleasing people at the expense of your own peace. Remember, you cannot do everything; choose what you do with intention, and never be afraid to let go of what is no longer helping you grow.
Memorable Quote
"There is no balance. But there is priority at certain seasons of your life."
Why We Remember Them
Similoluwa's story earns a place in the BTG archive because it offers a realistic antidote to the "hustle culture" of university life. She reminds students that being an undergraduate is not about ticking boxes or suffering through stress, but about becoming an explorer of one's own potential.
Her journey encourages a shift from passive participation to active, intentional design, both in architecture and in life.
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